My Girlfriend Says I'm Not the Boyfriend
I have been dating my girlfriend for three years now, and I am in love with her. We've recently had some problems, because she felt like there just wasn't a spark anymore (for her). I still totally felt it. We are still in the middle of fixing everything, because she wants to love me like she used to.
She tells me she feels like the boyfriend, and I'm the girlfriend. I agree when she says it, and laugh... but when I really think about it, I don't understand why. I am more classically romantic, worry all the time about her well-being, and like to always be in contact with her. I'm always giving her massages, getting her things, doing stuff for her, making her food, and stuff like that.
It just so god damn aggrivating that I treat her so perfectly, and am under-appreciated. Writing this story, I'm beginning to think she's spoiled. She told me she wanted to "take a break" until the summer was over, so she could realize how much I mean to her, and how sucky other guys are. I told her it was too coincidental that it was her senior summer to want a 'break', that she was changing drastically, that I wouldn't take her back, and that she wasn't missing out on much. So we are back together and things are all right. It sucks, I thought we would be perfect and be together forever. I feel like she's getting brain washed from her friends, T.V. and everything else that sucks in this world.
I don't know, it's not fair. Any tips?