In The Middle Olf The Night...

I was dating this guy last year and we spent 4 months together. The last weeks of our relationship we were having lots of arguments and I could not take anymore, so I broke up with him. A month later he sent me a message to ask how was I doing and I replied the day after that things were not fine but it was getting better. He replied being friendly, saying that he was glad anyway i was doing better, but he asked me why and I did not answer. I was having a hard time living abroad and with the break up things got a little worse. After that I was avoiding being online on msn not because I needed some time off that. December last year he sent me a message on msn wishing me a good christmas and greetings and then we talked the last time  middle january  this year and we kinda had another awkward situation, it was just beginning to have a little argument and minutes later I decided to go offline and to give it more time to get online there again.

But last thursday he called me out of nowhere in the middle of the night (2:50 am) and when i checked the number i did not pick up the phone, he tried to called me 3 times this night and then left me a text message saying that after the last talk we`ve had i did not hear from me and wonder if everything everything is alright with me. And then left a voice message (he sounded a little drunk though) asking the same as in the text message....

What does that all mean? I really don`t get this behaviour of him. Anyone, some advice?

trying not to be sad...

sofiapetals sofiapetals
26-30, F
1 Response Feb 7, 2010

hey, I wouldn't read to much into it. He obviously was worried about you and he was thinking about you and he did the drunk-and-dial. But it's hard to get back into relationships that were already broken. And especially at your age you should be opening your eyes to other men out there. That's all the advise I have.