I need help with this ASAP. i've cought my dad ma**erbating 3 times now (all around 2 am) and he acts as if I dont see it. I guess because im 12 years old he thinks I dont know what it is but I do know. my dad and mom have been married for I dont even know how long now and this is weird but I dont remember the last time they had or even talked about s*x. I dont know if my mom knows about him ma**erbating but im scared he doesnt love her enough to do anything with her. please help me out.
ryanstearns ryanstearns
22-25, M
4 Responses Aug 23, 2014

While I think it's very thoughtful of you to be concerned about your parents well being, I think you might be reading too much into this. A healthy sex life is important to a healthy, mature romantic relationship, but the fact is different people have different amounts of desire.Part of having a solid relationship, is balancing each other's needs and wants, and sex is just one thing on a very, very long list.So, while it is an important matter, it's not so important that a healthy relationship will simply end over it.Give your parents time, they've been together long enough to raise you to 12, that doesn't happen by accident, but with hard work.I think the more important issue, is that your dad is so nonchalant about his 12 year old son catching him jacking off.

thank you

I am trying to accept this man and have been married over 50 years. I don't get my needs met in any way, so I go off shopping hoping I will get compliments for a new outfit. It doesn't happen and I am trying my best to accept that this will not change.

Ok...i am a 32 year old mother of 2 and if my kids caught my husband doing that id kill him. You need to tell your mom...believe me...she will take care of the rest. Good luck 😊

How come it says you are 18-21 if you are only so young?

so im allowed to be on this app, lol