My Girl's Longest Fling
Okay, I've had some sleep, so let's try again
It is always been a thing for me since the first time when it happened unexpectedly that I want my partner of the time to sleep with a man with or without myself being present.
The first time I was about 21 years old, 4 years younger than my girlfriend - it came as a kind of unplanned 26th birhday present for her - and some sexy bonus for me and for the young guy involved (maybe 19 years old and slightly bemused!)
She later stayed twice more with him, once she went shopping with him for sexy undies and later that night, surprised him by calling on him wearing the same undies under her coat. I went to a friend's to pass the evening but I remember going to **** and being very excited to realize that she was maybe ******* him already. Another twice, in fact (details on request..:-) this happened.
Anyway, this is a drop in the ocean. My follwing girlfriend gave it a go too, but it's my current partner who is the most enthusiastic! She has stayed with four others and a further two with whom she tried but it wasn't really a success. The last of the successful sorties was the most spectacular. Obviously having a history of "swinging" in our relationship the subject often raised its head in bed especially whenb a little extra stimulation was called for. I can always tell when we're making love or touching and she's fantasizing with another guy because she is so much more turned on (we are together 10 years now and, you know, it's not like the first time anymore.) Often I'll ask "What are you thinking about, and she'll oblige with the facts, maybe a little ashamedly).
One time a neighbour's name surfaced. He is a big, liberated type and in our musings as to whether he would be "up for it" or not, we decided that almost certainly "yes". This left the question as to whether (my partner) would be brave enough to approach him, and how to. Until one day. She has suffered with occasional (left) shoulder pain (supposedly, according to some beliefs associated with guilt). He is a physiotherapist and when she approached him about the problem he asked her to ***** which she did. Apparently, the massage which he then gave her was approaching being a little too sexual regarding the proximity to her breast, so she asked that he stop which he did. When she arriveed home looking a little upset she explained what had happened. While telling me she seemed to understand more and arrived at the conclusion, without my intervention, that actually what she'd wanted in fact was for him to carry on and to see where it led them. I said, "fine, but why not tell him that?". She said she'd sleep on it and wait to see in the morning how she felt.
Previous "adventures" had been carried out three times involving her going away in the evening and returning in the night (twice) and once the following morning, contented, horny and ready to recount the night's events. One time, she'd been to see an ex- from many years before and, going to my bed at midnight, it was unclear whether she'd have been to bed with him. Half an hour after lying down and having just *********** myself, she arrives at the bedroom door, my heart in my throat and asks me "Are you feeling sexy?" Me:"Sure, why?" She gets into bed and I feel the unmistakeable feeling in her ***** that she's just finished ******* with her ex and now needed me to consumate and approve of her. This was a couple of months before...
The morning came and clearly she'd not forgotten. Far from it! Our daughter was still sleeping so I stayed at home while she went to call at his door. Let me explain a little of our living situation. We live in what some may call "community" - low impact dwellings, caravans, etc in the countryside and, I'll call him Mark, about 50 metres from us. She returned; he was sleeping. Half an hour and she tried again. Didn't come back...! Oh my GOD!! That must mean... Oh GOD!! My heart pounding. The pulse in my neck! Sweaty hands, trembling, the urge to defecate. No erection. But Oh my God! I couldn't restrain my curiosity and found I had to get closer to observe. As I started to approach I could already hear her! She sounded exactly as she does when she comes! She was already being taken to ******. I stayed within earshot feeling the adrenalin coarsing through my whole being. Then in the other direction I heard the sound of our daughter calling; she'd awoken, so I had to leave and go back.
Later she (excuse the use of the she but it's anonymous and easy) returned. I don't remember well what we did but I wa stold that she'd entered his van explaining that she felt that she needed "a good *******" to complement the previous day's massage. (How brave! I would have had to shy away in her situation). Obviously, he'd obliged, beginning with oral until she'd come and later going inside of her in missionary position and finally while she'd brought herself off again from on top. She said it had been really good and that he had, predictably, asked about me; what was I gonna say about it? Being assured that for me it was fine, that I knew she was there and why, he offerd to return later for a *********! And so it was later that night he came to our door, our daughter asleep, and we ended up the 3 of us in bed togerther. I stayed alone while they made love beside me, extremely turned-on and touching myself. Before the morning they had made love 3 times, I don't remember if I was included to tell the truth. The days passed and a little shame, embarassment, doubt or regret seemed to come over Mark; it was difficult for (my partner) to get him to visit.
Maybe 2 weeks later we saw him at a birthday party of a friend and stayed there drinking, smoking and talking a lot. I, more than she spoke to Mark which was very nice for me to see and to show there was no animosity between us. We walked back towards our homes together, he going his way and we, ours. Back home it was clear what was on our minds, so she went to ask him to come to ours. (I'd made it clear that I wanted to be present were anything to happen) She took a while! Eventually she came, saying that he didn't want to as he had to work the next morning but that he'd come the following night. Note: it later came to light that they had been ******* for maybe five minutes in this extended short visit and that he'd started by eating her again. She t hrilled me by saying that how he performed oral on her was the best she's ever had from me or anyone and that he ***** her really nicely. Oh, it's sooooo nice how he ***** me! What a turn on! Does any reader think that it's a little massochistic, rather than just a straight turn-on?
So, he returned the following night and the two following nights as well, always a little after midnight, climbing into our bed alongside her as we waited for his nightly visit. Almost always he'd arrive, they'd purr their hellos and start to lightly touch each others' bodies and to kiss. This would lead to a little more movement and re-arranging of limbs and a period where I was never sure whether he was inside of her yet or not and moving on to a time where all doubt was gone... Usually followed by a dawn repetition. I remember sometimes to make love to her but the emphasis very clearly being on them. It was also very lovely, the love and tenderness which I saw growing between them. After lovemaking, she'd often lie beside him or her head on his chest, playing idly with his chest hair or nipples and kissing a little, talking, purring, smiling: this was something that endeared him to her a lot, that he'd gaze into her eyes and give a loving smile during the lovemaking. SORRY I seem to be stuck in italics..?? She said to him, unashamedly, in my presence "I love you". She is not vindictive and none of this was to upset me and it really didn't.
After this, maybe a week went by until his next visit. I was putting our daughter to bed and discreetly suggested that they go to our geo-dome outside until little one was sleeping. After a while I crept over and looked through a small window to see my partners legs on his shoulders in missionary position, later moving herself on top. I went inside the geo dome to join them but sensed that my presence was a turn-off for them. This was denied but I maintain that they enjoy each other more withiut me there.
He has since gone and we don't know where which is a great shame as we would both like to have him in our sex life still.
If any readers have any questions or comments I would be very happy.
Love x x x x