Weight Room

As my luck would have it, I'm stuck in a personal fitness class at my school. You might ask why I'm doing this. Maybe I love going to a gym. Maybe I want to get fit. Surprise---I'm in this class because, if I'm not, I'll never graduate.

I've always been more feminine than most men I know. This makes me very uncomfortable in a weight room - especially the weight room at school, which is basically just one giant pool of testosterone. As far as being uncomfortable in my own skin: I don't know why, but I just never feel right in a gym of any sort. I mean never! Maybe it is that testosterone. I wonder...

rustyguy rustyguy
18-21, M
3 Responses Mar 19, 2009

hello.. i feel for you because i have a boyfriend who is 'less than a man' because of his being effeminate. i asked him so many times already if he is GAY. he said he is not.. i love this guy so much that i could even ACCEPT him despite his gender preference (if ever he realize that one day) .. so my question is, if you are not comfortable into that gym,,, why not search yourself first who you really are... find your happiness...search what ticks you in the first place. <BR><BR>id like to hear more from you regarding your case, please keep in touch! :)

Not really one or the other, to be honest. Thanks for the smile!

So are you into girl things, or just NOT into tough guy things? <br />
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I think it is ok to not be a manly man. Nothing wrong with that!