What Would You Do?I like to think that I am trying to be a good Christian. I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime many that I regret but now I am at what seems to be the end of a bad marriage! He actually says " its about the kids not us" but he doesn't seem to realize that if I can't function for myself I can't function for them. We both seem to be blaming each other and mine is from pure verbal abuse and neglect! In the last 11 years he has spent no, none at all, quality time with me! No movies, no dinners, no intamacy, just sex. I feel like a tool! Me and the kids are expected to sit in our rooms from sun up to sundown, everyday! The youngest is four! This has been going on since he was about 2! Always yelling at me and putting me down! I don't
know anything and I'm stupid! Yet for the last 11years, I have been the only
one working! He says it would have been impossible for us both to work and raise the four kids! In my head I keep hearing hold on, but my heart doesn't want to hurt anymore! What would you do?