I can't believe I have done this to myself...I am married to the most hateful, inconsiderate man alive. Everything and I do mean everything has to be done on HIS terms. He doesn't even like me to ask him questions every now and then. We haven't been intimate in 7 years!!!
I know that it hasn't been easy and he's not all to blame, but he has been controlling, mean and purposefully hurtful whenever the chance arises. I have been sick for a little more than a year and I need him to take me to appointments and every time I have one he throws a fit. He works from home so it makes it a lot harder that we don't get a break from each other,
My family wants me to leave him and so do I but I'm afraid of him. I'm afraid he will use my illness against me and take my son from me.
I wish more than anything that I could find a way to make this work other than not to speak unless spoken to.