I have been married almost 9 years.....together almost 11.  I feel my wife doesnt love me, and will honestly admit that at this point I cant say I love her

TruePal TruePal 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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i can tell you the day my wife fell out of love with me. It wasn't something I did but rather didn't do, she had septoplasty(inner nose surgery) and as we split our bills and have seperate accounts, I gave her $500.00 towards her surgery. It wasn't enough and she feels I should have given more. Maybe I should have, but at the time we didn't even know the full amount it would be costing. She lost faith that I would be there for her at that point. I love her too much to leave her, but am in so much pain staying with her.

I am at the same point i care deeply, but when is enough enough...i mean hell we joined and i am unhappy with my marriage web sit because we are so sad.....

Thanks Poppy, and yes goldie...2 girls

you have kids?

I was not IN LOVE with my husband when we married. But,, after all we've been through for the past 27 years, he's still my best friend.

You must decide what you want. What will make you happy. Best of luck my friend!

I am sure