Marriage Depression

My husband and I have been married for 11 years . Through our marriage I have dealt with his stupidity . Moving his mom in our house without asking and then she disrespected me in my own home. He took out loans and lied,and a whole lot of other things to much to describe. I am tired . We have a passionless marriage and i don't love him. i don't know what to do . i feel alone . I have discussed my feelings and he seems to not understand what I'm talking about. I feel I deserve happiness.
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1 Response Jan 21, 2013

I married my husband 4 years ago. About 2 years into the marriage I felt like he didn't want me anymore. He stopped making me feel loved and instead made me feel invisible. I ended up having an affair with another man. My husband found out and I thought he didn't care, but come to find out I had been pushing him away this whole time. Sometimes we don't understand the things we say or do to others and the way that it may effect them. So maybe take the time to sit him down and ask if you have done anything to make him feel like he needs to lie and do those things to you. It is going to be hard to hear but just try it.