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What I'm Doing To Cope

My husband wants to leave me and I am torn apart.  I've had a lot of trouble sleeping in the bed we used to share.  So I started a blog about it all.  I don't want to burden my friends and family with it, so I am trying to promote it in an anonymous way.  Making a post each night now replaced the kiss my husband used to give me.  I hope that soon I will be able to fall asleep. See it at:
rahkeepschanging rahkeepschanging 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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I see you deleted your blog so I hope things are better for you. I'm in the same boat in term with my wife and I just posted here for the same reason. It's ironic, I'm dying to have a heart to heart with my wife and not getting it. Hope my post helps in some way. Sweet dreams.

I feel the same way. Mine works to much. And talks to little to me.I suspect he is cheating and a compulsive lier to boot.

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i m varun singh i m only 31 can u want to make friendship with me

I feel stuck. Need someone to talk to.No friends. Two girls I have. But They're just kids.I regrect him.Not my babies.I've lost myself.Physically and mentally. I'm hanging on for they're sake.:-)

sorry 2 hear u are having so much trouble in your marriage...i've been divorced before so i know the hurt and pain that u feel...if its any consolation, i understand that things change...your sadness and sorrow will eventually disappear if let God take over and u let go")

sorry u are facing so much pain...esp when your spouse has announced that he's leaving...i'd almost rather the person disappeared in the middle of the day without anything...a note or a goodbye...the slow, drain of your energy must be exhausting...i suppose the fact that you're unhappy is a good cause to end the relationship...maybe a good chat with friends/family or even a counselor could help with a clearly unbearable situation....

what helps keep me sane is watching Dr. Phil...don't's actually pretty good at common fav line from his show: "after the break, i'm going to put VERBS in my sentences!" kidding Dr. Phil...most sentences have

Well, as you have company....I,too am at a standstill...just hanging on.<br />
My heart goes out to must take care of yourself,hon.oxokathie

you are special, you are important, you are worthy of someone who loves you 100%...let him go and find yourself .... no one can make you happy...once you are secure in yourself the right one will come....stay positive....

Your post reminded me of how everything will change if I push through with my idea of a separation. This is why I'll never confess how I really feel about the marriage. I may not be 'in love' with him, but I care enough for him to not break his heart.<br />
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I hope you come unscathed from all this confusion.