I Just Want To Feel Desired Every Once In A WhileI must just be feeling sorry for myself today but it should would be nice to feel desired by my wife. I can't remember the last time she curled up next to me because she felt that need. These days its more of an obligation on selected dates of her choosing. You can't demand this feeling if it doesn't exist. Time has slowly voided her of those normally innate desire of physical intimacy. It's not that she doesn't love me not care for me. Life has just worn away these feelings.
When she looks directly at me and says she just can't respond that way anymore I try my best to understand and more importantly to be fair. I try thinking a a 3rd party and it helps as long as I can remove myself from the situation. Its an imbalance that reeks havoc in my own mind but for her... she doesn't give it much thought. I need to just cope