Hi my name is SusanK and I have never been so lonely and depressed in my life. I've will be married 10 years this August, and I'm really surprised it lasted this long. My husband seems to pull further and further away from me for the past 5 - 6 years now. He works late, never spends time with me and our son. We eat dinner maybe once a week together, if I'm lucky and that usually ends in an argument. I know what your thinkiung, sounds like he's having any affair. No, he's not sleeping with me for the past 3 years and no one else. I wish it was an affair he was having, and maybe I can pinpoint the problem. He argues with me, anything I do is not good enoughg. I don't thikl is healthy for me to continue in this marraige, he obviously does not want me. I'm fooling myself. I can't even talk to him. He has issues to deal with. I so tired of the bullshit. My son and I have to move on. It makes me so sad to even think of leaving. I'm at my deep end what should I do.