i thought id share my story t.i am a mother and married but very unhappy as i dnt lve mu husband any more and i know he doesnt love me either but he desnt seem to try to get out of this situation or talk abut it.i cant talk abt it as im so scared of him,he is so rude to me all the time and hits me and scolds me all time.i hate seeing him face and cant luk int his face.but i am so scared and dont know what to d.i dnt think im strong enough to file for divorce?sounds very silly of me really-----------
tashaheldt tashaheldt
1 Response Dec 13, 2012

thx so much winkle62dear.ur words really help 4 me 2 stay strong..i know im in a bad place.but is it that easy to walk away with his child.theres a child involve and will i get accused of taking his child? his beatings not being bad so lately but every day he scolds me for simple things and i am very sensitive person also..i have a job and a degree too but i think i am not strong enough to leave him .as im thinking my relatives and freinds will laugh @ me for divorcing and if i stay with him financially better but at the same time i can not as he makes me so sad on a daily basis by talking me down!!!he makes comments like i am a bad wife and i have nothing ///and thats bad enough he doesnt let me work and earn my own money..i work p/t and i pay him rent and i have nothing left 4 me to buy food or clothes.he wants me 2 stay home an luk after the baby and dont want me to arrange childcare for the kid.i love my kid so i only want to work few more hours and spend time with my kid also but he have a go @ me every time i ask him if i can work extra!!!any way but ill soon figure something out and keep in touch.