So Sad

Hi me and my husband are traditional christians and with that we decided not to have sex for the year until we was married.
The problem is that we have now been married two years and have only had sex four or five times. There is no proof he is cheating on me and i dont know what to do.
I keep telling him am upset and he just rolls over. I want a family and he says he does but yet there is no intimacy at all. What should i do. Is my marrige over already?
An Ep User An EP User
1 Response Jan 19, 2013

I have been married about a year and a half and in that same situation. I have started looking for apartments because basically I feel alone in my marriage and that isn't right. I want to fight, but if the other person isn't willing to respond at all, won't seek help with counseling and can't have a meaningful conversation then what is the point? My wife drives me nuts and it is almost to that point that I can't keep fighting. I'm tired of fighting and being unhappy...

I'm probably not the best person to give advice considering where I am in my marriage, but have you tried counseling or bringing that option up? My wife won't consider it, married a year and a half and average sex once a month and it sucks, basically seems likek she would rather be somewhere else.

Thank you, for replying, yes we have been councilling, it improved us on communication but nothing else,Since i wrote that, me and my husband have studying and praying, we have became alot closer, i now think that it is good to know we love each other without the sex and will do in years to come,( even tho i new that), i now know its because we was'nt talking to God. i have been asking God to cover us and to be honest things are picking up, i believe the power of praying is strong,
I think your wife obviously loves you and you her, maybe try communicating in a differant way by letter or take her somewhere you first met, and try bring up the subject, if its true love and its meant to be dont give up but if its only one sided then maybe get some divorce papers which will show her your serious, this wad my next step, i hope i have helped abit, am not exacly the best person to give advice,
Please let me knoe how things go and thank you for the advice x