I am 25 and I been married for almost 6 yrs now. I feel so lonely and very emotional. I long for my husbands touch, his attention and conversation. I am always the last thing on his mind. I texted him around 7 am telling him that I loved him..it's 3 pm and I haven't received a response yet. Our mutal friend stopped by and I asked him to text my husband and guess what? He responded to his text but I know he's still going to tell me he was busy. I want out but he says that he loves me and wants to be with me. We have no emotional connection, no romance or anything. I have suggested that we try counseling but he doesn't think anything is wrong..when I bring up my feelings he says I just want something to complain about. I don't know what to do anymore
TMichelle87 TMichelle87
22-25, F
4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

I am going thru the same thing- we fight every day, do not talk to each other for a week or more, does not care about my emotions or feelings, always bring me down or say negative stuff about me, no romance, no love- just plain strangers living under the same roof and lying on the same bed. Do what is right for you, cause life is too short and we have to live it to the fullest without these men in it. I may be walking out at the end of the month with my two wonderful kids. Best of luck!!

I have to do what's best for me. I can't go on living this way. I want a happy relationship.. Thank you

Leave if he doesn't care to make things happen then leave, but do what you feel you must.


All is not lost! If he won't listen you need to listen to yourself. I am in the same situation and my words would never get across to my wife, I don't even remember the last time she told me that she loved me!

After making excuses for our marriage and her for the past 2 years I have finally put a deposit on an apartment. If they don't see a problem and don't care to talk about it, then you are talking to a wall.

Good luck and hope the best for you!

I agree..talking to a wall and I'm tired of it. I need to take a big step like u...maybe he'll see that I'm serious

That is what I hope for but you have to be OK with it not working out too. Find that value you have in yourself and be happy with it. If my wife does a 180 and works hard, who knows, maybe I would come back home, but I don't expect it and I am working on being OK with that.

I have been thinking of going to stay with my mom for a few weeks. Just leave one day while he's at work and not telling him anything. I wonder how many days would go by before he thinks to call me? I'd be ok with things not working out. I would love it if he fought for our marriage but that's not him.

Change that 'have been thinking' to 'I am going to' and that will turn the situation on its head. You will see what kind of guy you are married to after that.

Yes I am going to...thank you

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dearr u gotta tell him that u can't live like this
u deserves more than that ,, follow your heart but remember to take your brain with you !!!

with lots and lots and lots of love Darfy Sharp Gilbert You Can Add Me On FB To Contact

Thank u