hi everybody, I'm married for 5 years, we have 2 young children. my husband is always to tired or to stressed for time with me. i have a high sex drive and his is low, when we do actually have sex he doesn't last longer than a few seconds so I'm constantly frustrated. Ive tried toys Ive tried talking to him Ive tried everything. i have not cheated on him but I'm finding my daily thoughts being drawn to other men, Ive even caught myself flirting. I'm only 27 and i cant live the rest of my life like this. please help me before i put my marriage in jeopardy.