My Unsure Relationship
I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally neutral to the whole situation.
On the positive side we talk every night for at least an hour and during school she spent almost every day with me in my apartment (although all she did was study), but during breaks from college she shows no interest in seeing me (we live an hour and a half away from each other by commuter rail).
We don't have a bad relationship by any means, we have never gotten in screaming matches or purposely hurt each other, but i want her to be committed to the relationship and act more like a lover who cares than a just a friend.
Recently she has claimed to be improving her part in the relationship and now will hold my hand and shows more emotion and interest when we are together but I'm starting to wear thin and wondering what i should do and if this is a path i want to keep walking. I am in love with this girl and wish to stay with her but I'm getting tired of seemingly being the only one in the relationship.