I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we are happy, I haven't been 'on my own' - i.e. without a boyfriend and totally independent since I was 15, I'm 23 now. I feel I need time to spread my wings a bit before I settle but I don't want to give up on a relationship that potentially be great... what do you think??