Planned A Weekend Vacation And Then He Stops Communicating

I had first planned a vacation for myself, but then I met this guy and things changed. It was a long distance relationship, but we lived in the same state.We met at the start of May of this year and things were going nicely. We talked about marriage and having kids, he stated he wanted to meet my child, we had a lot in common, and I thought we had really opened up to one another about our backgrounds and where we were headed. He even continually joked about me having his last name and last week said we were exclusive. Our trip was to be this weekend and we were supposed to meet at this nice hotel in a major city of our state. I arrived, but he didn't. As I was not far from the hotel, he texts me that his grandmother was sick from pneumonia in the hospital. He even posted it on Facebook. So I'm thinking okay. It's understandable if he doesn't show. So I checked in and tried to make the most of it alone. :( On Saturday, I texted him to see how he was doing and he said fine, but he didn't call. That night I called him to see how he was doing, but received no response. 3hrs later he posts on Facebook, "Way to go Tennessee ! Let's hunt some gators next week... Had a great night with a great friend and look forward to many more." And note, he's being liking pics and making comments on Facebook the whole weekend. When he usually hangs with his male friends, their names show. He didn't post any names and a female liked the message. Apparently this is the same female he went to a concert with last month. He said he went with two friends, but in the photos there is only pics of him and her or only her. He said he had a lot of female friends and meant no harm by the pics. But there are no other pics of him with a female besides one female who has been a lifelong friend and married. He hadn't even posted photos of us together stating he just didn't like the way he looked. If you planned to go on vacation with someone and couldn't make, why be butthead and show you care and call? I still haven't heard back from him. I had rebuilt my trust in men just to get my heart broken again. What's funny is is that a friend had given me tickets to an upcoming Vols game that I was going to surprise him with. I'm so tired of having my heart broken.
1DayIllBeHappy 1DayIllBeHappy
Sep 9, 2012