I Use To Be Introverted

I was very introverted when I was younger. I suggest you take a big deep breath and realize if people don't like you for what ever reason it's their problem not yours. And I also decided that it was a lot more fun to be out going. Keep trying and it will get easier I still struggle with it but if you asked people to describe me they would tell you I'm extroverted I've learned to hide it very well. Deep breaths good luck.
trudypitudy trudypitudy
56-60, F
1 Response Dec 2, 2012

I'm very fascinated about this extroverted and introverted thing. I'm noticed same thing. Many people say they are introverted (or shy if they don't know the difference). I always ask those people if they really love being introverted or maybe they just stuck blaming they are introverted instead of working on thier personality. Some people hate me for being this straight forward. But I myself, as u, have done some big changes in my life, to be the person I want to be. One thing is that when I was young I never answered a text or mail. I had other things to do. Then I understood other people though I was selfish when I always priority what I wanted.. So I think about it and asked myself if it was a big deal to learn to answer texts, emails and so on direct. It was a struggle, but I always answer them today as soon as I see them. Because it is just polite. And even if I don't have time to answer, I tell them tar right away. I have learned to let people know I am interested in them, and want to chat, but I also need time to think or be alone. I'm both extroverted and introverted today. And can choose when I want to be. I belive Every person can be whatever they want, with strong will and hard work! :)