Has It Finally Gotten Me?

get help..tell your mom your dad your teacher your princiapl .. if you had measle would you walk around saying hmm wonder if this is going to kill me? no you would tell them ..if you are already getting help get more..go tot he emergency room today with or without an adult and tell them what is happening..do not wait..you have a whole life ahead of you..it is an illness just like any other..you can get better..you need to get better...please baby do this ..do not wait..not one more hour..

I think we all make life harder on ourselves than we need to be. Anorexics actually derive some form of clarity and self-control from not eating, but it has an addictive quality. Learn as much as you can about anorexia.

Remember that the negative self-talk is happening. Behind your mind, there's the real you, a powerful entity. Sometimes we drown out the part of ourselves that solves problems....Be aware that there is negative self-talk occuring and that you can be aware of these thoughts without following them. Part of anorexia is people being very hard on themselves. Anorexics are in some respects very strong, but too strong. They are the ones who don't cry at funerals, who have everything under-control, and are demanding and harsh with themselves. And the isolation factor makes anorexics feel alone, that they are going it alone.

well, i know a girl that go throught the same, apparently that was because low selfsteme, but her family aid her, you should rely on someone and then he/she might aid you

It's not that easy and it comes on often during the teen years. It's not like a cookie you can just throw out, indeed. So many of us have battled diseases, addictions and dependencies. Just remember you are not alone with this problem and that there are many many great support groups and clinicians/therapists/doctors/nurses who have helped so many people with this problem.

The shakes might be low-blood sugar but would also want to rule out dietary deficiencies as well as any other problems caused by insufficient and/or irregular food intake. How smart of you to reach out! though there are other sites and people who are professionals in this area. If you can find one in your area, see someone who specializes in this disease. If you feel you can, be open with your family or with some adult family member where you feel safe. You need support too. Dealing with the problem now is a very smart move on your part. Many women and men are helped with this problem and go on to lead happy healthy lives.

Mabe you could consider a NEW goal--Become a body builder-That takes a lot of thought& effort to!

You have the time, but a professional can help you with this better than I can. There's no shame in what you are going through. A professional can give you great techniques for learning how to deal with this problem. And learning about it, what makes it happen. Some people have been helped with medication. Being a teenager is a challenge but start working on the problem now. You have a great life ahead of you. Be easy and forgiving of yourself.