I Want Him to Be Ok

My boyfriend has had headaches his whole life. Off and on, sometimes mild, sometimes extreme. Since he moved to a bigger city, and got a stressing job, his headaches, migraines have become very very extreme. He loses his vision, gets a ringing in his ears which deafens him, gets nosebleeds, throws up, and just gets very very weak. I'm really concerned. He's had a few MRI's done and the doctors see nothing abnormal, but they've become frequent, and I'm scared. I'm worried. I want to do something, but I can't. I can't make it go away, can't make him feel better. I don't know what to do. How to help him. If anything were to happen to him...I don't know what I'd do. What would I do with out him. He's the love of my life. I know I'm young, and have my whole life ahead of me. But so does he. He deserves a full long good happy life. I want him to live. I don't want him to suffer. I worry so much. Please pray for him. Please.

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2 Responses Apr 26, 2009

thanks for your comment and idea..<br />
my boyfriend was born with heart problems and had open heart surgery when he was a baby.. he's had check ups on his heart to make sure everything is functioning well and everything has come out positive..<br />
ever since he moved back home his headaches have disappeared almost completely and usually gets them every once in a while like every one else :)

As weird as this sounds, I watched a Mysterious Diagnosis show where a woman had extreme headaches where she had to quit her job, hide in dark places, and isolate herself. Doctors found our that she had a hole in her heart. She was most likey born with it and it was small where she had no problems until she got older and the hole got bigger. Once the doctors fixed it, her headaches went away completely. It's odd how your heart could cause headaches, but doctors are still learning about the connection. Maybe he should get his heart checked just to be safe.