I am disabled, 4'8", and 90-something pounds. I'm delicate and cannot defend myself. Men can easily take advantage of me and have done so before. I am tiny. I get sexually harassed by men of my generation and men that are a lot older. It is almost constant. It's become a fact of life for me. One of my greatest fears is being in yet another abusive relationship. It is very difficult for me to trust men, but I get along with them very well when I do. Other than family members, I can count on one hand the men that I know I can trust. It can be very hard for a man to gain my trust, but I can guarantee that once he does he will have a permanently steadfast and unfailingly loyal friend.