Men Are Confusing

So I am not sure if this is even under the right heading, but my boyfriend won't have sex with me. He is 21 and I am 20. We would be each other's first. We are currently long distance and he wants to wait until we are living in the same house. Which is really romantic, except for the part where we have no plans for this. Add in the fact that my first boyfriend turned out to be gay (not that there is anything wrong with being gay), and my second boyfriend turned out to be a woman. I am freaking out. My current boyfriend and I have done other stuff so its not like its that much different. And I am on birth control and we would use a condom. But he still wants to wait until we are living together.  I guess it doesn't help that before this I had thought that all guys wanted was sex. I mean its not like I hadn't heard of a guy turning down sex, but that was usually because he either did like the person or he was gay. And my boyfriend is definitely not gay. And he tells me he loves me. I just don't understand.
Guardie2010 Guardie2010
18-21, F
May 11, 2012