And I Do

Although I will not apologize for defending myself.
This story post though is not about someone I have wronged or someone who has wronged me, at least in this case. It is about someone who I wish would apologize to someone else. I could not find a group for it and didn't want to start a whole new one.
At Christmastime they said something pretty mean about a friend of mine and it has been bothering me. I wish they would apologize to him, I know he saw it. They know he saw it. I have noticed for quite a while they have some bullying and narcissistic tendencies and while I tend to brush it off when it is aimed at me I can't help but be bothered when they do it to someone just for being friendly to me. It's mean, and what they did was mean. Just because someone is passive aggressive about it doesn't mean that people aren't going to notice even though some might be blind to it. My tolerance of this is beginning to fade. It was pretty low and I just wish they would apologize.
Peacewithyourfate Peacewithyourfate
1 Response Feb 26, 2012

Well I got a response. I don't expect any apologies to me, it is who they are. And I can't force someone to apologize for something they don't want to take responsibility for. You can't force someone to apologize and you can't force someone to forgive, they have to do it on their own. If they decide to apologize to that person it's up to them. I'm not going to push the issue. <br />
But I don't like covert harrassment..I have been dealing with that from someone else and I don't appreciate it being done to me when someone knows that I'm already going through it elsewhere. And I don't like seeing it done to someone else. I guess I know what I need to do about the situation, I just don't know the most polite way to go about it. :I