Feeling Very Low Again

I feel very low and alone. I look at the my life and cannot see the point in going on. I feel so unhappy and I want to escape. I don't want to go to work anymore. I'm tired of getting into new jobs and being unhappy and feeling like I don't fit in. I just want to scream and say take me away from all this. I feel like an outsider everywhere I go and I'm so tired. I don't have a relationship or friends. I have social anxiety and it all feels like too much to bear anymore. I have no one to talk to and just getting it out on here is such a release. I don't want to keep trudging on anymore. Life just feels hopeless.
lonelyandalone40 lonelyandalone40
36-40, F
5 Responses Dec 16, 2012

There are a lot of days that I feel the same way. Asking myself, what's it all for?

My dear but you are not alone. You are feeling things that some of us feel or have felt sometimes in our lives. Yes, we must be encouraged by each other!

Thank you. This site has been a great help.

Loneliness is something that many people struggle with. The Bible is comforting for those that are lonely as it assures us we are not alone. God is our creator and is with us. The Bible is also clear that God does not want us to be without other people, He created us to live with others in this world. The Bible encourages us to find friendships with other believers. As you read through these Bible Verses, ask God to work them into your life. Pray to him with a faithful heart and he will hear you! Hebrews 13:5
Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,
"Never will I leave you;
never will I forsake you."
Please try Jesus, he is the lord and the Savior. He died for you and me and took our sins away from us. He has already finish doing everything for us. Now is the time to be happy with him and carry on our duty to share this good news to everyone. I assure you 100% full guarantee if you accept him as your own personal savior. You will have all the happiness and eternal life with him in heaven even after you die. We do not have any rights to take our own life because the bible clearly says even the hair on our head is counted and recorded. That means God do really exist and he loves you unconditionally. I believe brother or sister when you read this God is working on you and he loves you so much. This is a good news and life changing news for you.
Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
Romans 15:13
13 May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Psalm 28:7
The LORD is my strength and my shield;
my heart trusts in him, and he helps me.
My heart leaps for joy,
and with my song I praise him.
God bless you
Herb

Thank you for your kind words Herb. I don't have a religion, but have found myself in a church many times to feel some peace.

i find it hard to make sense of my life some times i get so low i cry but i have my kids and my new grand kids so its them that keep me going you need to do the same find some thing good to focus on and dont give up if you want to talk then add me i am here

Thank you. I've never been married and don't have children. Sometimes looking back at my life that feels like the biggest failure to me. I never thought life would turn out like this and I'm afraid to get involved with anyone as I push everyone away as I feel like I don't deserve love. I struggle to find something to keep me going and then I realise just now as I type that my cat is nudging and licking my hand. Good reason to keep going I think. Apologies for all that information. Just came from nowhere then :-)

if you want to talk i am here just send me a message and lets talk

Everyone deserves love.

I feel a little bit I am in a similar place to yourself. So it's not like I can help you very much because I haven't done a good job on myself. Except one thing. Be more forgiving and accepting with yourself. Accept your limitations and love yourself for it. Accept that you can't form relationships and are socially not able to form the relationships you desire. Accept this and say that you have tried your best and that it is just something that you have difficulty with and many human beings have troubles and difficulties and it's okay. Hopefully this might bring you some peace.

Thank you for your reply and kind words. I'm sorry to hear you feel in a similar place and I hope you manage to be kind to yourself too.