Worried All The Time

I'm now worried a lot about my unhealthy mum. She's badly ill--------lung cancer. And now she's worse and worse.

I don't know what to do. But I know I can't live without her. I  love her more than myself. I can't help thinking of it all the time.

I'm afraid of losing her.

What can I do?Who can help me?????

I'm crazy.........

A CRYING DAYGTER

taylorshen taylorshen
18-21, F
3 Responses Feb 11, 2010

I see this was posted in Feb. How are things now? <br />
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I'm so sorry for what you two are going through. Not trying to make this about me; but I've been right where you are now. My Mom had lung cancer too. She was 39 and I was 16. Please let me know if there's anything I can do. I'll definitely be praying.Go to her and tell her all the sweet, wonderful things she did for you and how much you appreciate and love her. Tell her over and over and over, as much as possible and PRAY together! Ask her if there is anything she wants to confide in you with; something that may be really important (family wise). At first, I thought I would go out of my mind. Then, when I thought about how much my Mom loved the Lord and all the suffering she endured, I knew she was in a much happier place. I just had to keep thinking of the all the faith she had in God and how he was taken care of her.HUGS and PRAYERS,Evelyn

omg you poor little thing. Do you have an aunt or somebody you can talk to? maybe a good friend?<br />
I am so so sorry, your dad maybe? I know this probably will not be much consolation but your precious mom IS going to be in a much better place, I believe this with all of my heart soul and mind our god will open those arms. You honey will have to learn to live without her in the being. She will always be in your heart, and you will go through a lot of very bad days, it is normal to be frightened angry everything in the book, Your mom you and you and your whole family WILL be in my prayers, again I am so sorry write anytime you want.

Not crazy but in trouble! You will likely lose your mum, if not now then in a while. All I can recommend is to get used to the idea and for now try to make the best out of what you still have. Spoil your mom and get used to the idea of living without her!