I choice to avoid family since my father abandon and put me in a foster home at age 15. Family is not willing to help me when i almost lost everything in my life as I had trouble finding a job. And family just want to take advantage for me. Despite I almost lost everything in my life, I finally found a job and slowly getting my life in order. then when family learns I get a job, everyone in my family that didn't help me before wants money from me. I had enough of them. they only care about them self.