The Cause ...

it is difficult to pinpoint the exact cause for anxiety and depression here. it seems now to be centered around my wife and what is happening in our relationship. every time i think of her my heart races and i feel overwhelmed with anxiety. at the same time it causes me to feel depressed because she has essentially "checked out" of our relationship. maybe the source has actually been her all along. i know when she refused me throughout the years it has dominated my mood. causing me to feel like i cannot face the world because the one i love does not feel interested in me. now it is way past that stage. there is no intimacy at all. she refuses to be seen by me without a lot of clothes on. when the relationship you felt so strongly attached to is crumbling it is time to reevaluate the situation. anxiety and depression can be caused by external influence. i need to come to grips with that.

grogorthox grogorthox
31-35, M
1 Response Feb 26, 2010

have you thought about getting some anti depressants to help get you through this rough time,most doctors can prescribe something to help you cope a little easier....