I just came across this article...I highly recommend everyone read it.

"The concept? 'Masochistic equilibrium.'
When I first heard these words, I immediately wondered what they meant. I found out they represent a truly important psychological theory—one which clearly explains how and why sometimes a person’s comfort zone might actually be to stay in discomfort."

http://notsalmon.com/2012/10/17/why-people-self-sabotage-their-happiness/
BrokenOneX BrokenOneX
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2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

I can understand that concept,
I've been there before, but never for long.

This is more or less what i just realized during my therapy session last week. Still having issues processing it, but it is quite true.
Thanks for sharing this.