I seem to be backwards from most of everyone else. Others need to "play" with someone first, before they feel safe to dive into the deep stuff. I need to dive into the deep stuff first, before I feel safe to "play" with someone.

Anyone relate to this?
gwyon gwyon
51-55
1 Response Aug 21, 2014

I don't want to talk small talk with a racist or a homophobe or a religious zealot.

To make comfortable small talk I need like a half a dozen deep issues discussed so I feel like I won't offend /get offended.