Married and Far Away

Hello, I am new here to this site and im trying to get support from a different source. I wanted to share my story.......

In the year of 06 my husband and i met on a chat line, unfortunately he lives in the U.S.A and i live in Canada. We live so far from one another and we were very much in love from the moment we met in person. We decided to get married so he propose the year of 07 and we got married the summer of 08. Unfortunately we go weeks without seeing one another and the long distance relationship is extremely hard and frustrating. In the year of 07 before i got engaged i went to his hometown and spent 6 months there. It developed our future we knew what we wanted and exactly what we wanted to do about it from that time forward. When i got back home, everything was great but when i went to the border they declined my entrance long story about that want to try to keep this short.  So it was then we decided to rush the marriage, so we planned 8 months and then got married and the plan was for me to move to his hometown. We get to the border (remind you that the border had told us the only way for us to be together and get me across again was to get married so indeed thats what happend) so we went to the border a week after we got married and they again broke our hearts and declined my entry. From that day forward i have been under extreme depression i have gained almost one hundred pounds i went from a size 10 to a size 20-22 i have no idea what to do with my life, my husband and i have only seen eachother twice since we have been married we have done everything the border has told us to do and now we are waiting around from a response from the government. I need some help i have been turning to food as comfort i want to stop and i need help on how to do so. Im losing my faith, my feelings, my fatigue, and finally myself. 

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1 Response Mar 9, 2009

I would just clock the guys not letting me do what i want, take it to court, see what's up, if that doesn't work get married in Canada, i woulldn't imagine anyone being intolerant of 2 ppl wanting to get married for any reason, FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE BABY xoxox