A Horrid Time Of Year For People Like Me

like me?...

hey, thanks for taking the time to read this :)

im gavin, 19 and from England, and im gonna assume that you all know what im talking about. Valentines day. Being single on valentines day is bad enough, but being depressed as well just sucks.

Iv been feeling worse as it gets closer to the big day, one of my main problems is that both of my best mates are with someone. And im always feeling so jealous of them. The amount of times i sit in my room and i want to cry, and i just sit there for ages, and then i break down, crying like a baby.

Has anyone got any tips on what i can do to help, i really feel like im breaking down. I feel like my world is falling apart. Does anyone else understand?

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3 Responses Feb 10, 2010

if u ever need an ansewer for depresion, love, hate,life im here for u... everyone needs a friend including u... than if not u than me, i need a friend.... i like u.... u have no fear, and u r full of passionate love for friends and a future mate... would u be my friend.... please?

hey, look, alot of people who meet and fall in love as adults. look JESUS LOVES U and thats all that matters... you know... i know god put u on tyis world for something big. weather preatchin to ur future wife or girlfriend to being the new moses... led the isrealites out of egypt,...but its leading the state as president or even being at church... bringing ur relation ship closer with god... at least the most impotant man loves u, i hope that makes u feel better.... lol by GOD BLESS

Valentine's Day is luckily, just a day... 24 hours. It will pass and you will be okay. Spend it doing something you love. Plan to do something that can distract you from the date on the calender.<br />
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And honestly, Valentine's Day is about the illusion of love, not love itself. It's about Hallmark cards, shiny gold jewelry, perfect red roses, and all those material things we'd like to believe amounts to love... but it doesn't. There are plenty of people in relationships that will spend Valentine's Day feeling alone, despite the presence of another. So if you do get sad, know that at least you are lonely for the right reasons.<br />
And know, it won't always be this way.<br />
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"You may feel alone when you're falling asleep, and every time tears roll down your cheeks. But I know your heart belongs to someone you've yet to meet. Someday you will be loved." -Death Cab for Cutie