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Hate

hey my names Jonny,

when i was young i was a very kind person who would see the best in bad people, but now i see the world in its true form and i don't like what i see, when i see people i feel hatred.
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it might be about understanding ourself and understanding the people we hate, when we really understand them we might feel compassion for them, maybe even the bad people.. It mgiht be said that people do the best with what they have, the biology they have been given from their parents, their intelligence, their experiences, the knowledge they have, their culture etc and its shaped them to be the way they are.

hello, Sairithborn<br />
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bitter and twisted is one option<br />
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................................................ a life fuelled by hate is another.<br />
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i hated until it was 42yo<br />
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.....................................and yes<br />
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.....................................................i do mean H A T E ! ! !<br />
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and loathing and detestation<br />
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............................................. because i felt rejected<br />
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.............................................. abandoned<br />
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............................................. and i could not admit to feeling hurt<br />
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.............................................. then i discovered<br />
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............................................... real men can feel hurt<br />
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................................................ and live through it<br />
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................................................. beyond it<br />
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i forgave those who hurt me<br />
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........................................... i forgave myself<br />
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..................................................................... i stopped hating<br />
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and only then did i realise<br />
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.......................................... hate uses up vast amounts of energy<br />
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and the ones i hated<br />
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.................................. felt nothing<br />
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so, the only person that i was punishing with my hate<br />
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.................................................................................... was me.<br />
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phew.... glad i found a better way.<br />
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respect to you and your choices, from robbie

Use some of your energy for loving yourself.

There are still many nice ppl out there and I've met some while I traveling in different countries.<br />
Don't give up hopes!

Life can sometimes suck but you cannot let the past affect you. Life is short. Try & smile. It is all about balance...

why do you feel so? i think something made you to feel like that. plz enjoy yourself.

Hi, I too find most people annoying, but they aren't all bad...You have a nice picture, by the way... Caithness

Hi Jonny,not sure you are a really bad person,what makes me think you are not that bad? It is the fact you realize yo feel this way towards other people. Maybe you should consult a psy and he could help you,they have the ability and knowledge to help you,why not give it a try.I feel awful sometimes to the extent I don't talk to anyone,after I take my medecine I feel 100% better.

*yawn*<br />
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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz