Correction Is Painful But It Is Part Of The Natural Order

Why? Its her decission.I personally would not go there but she made the choice.Vive La Difference.

Nearly all my friends from home are subordinate women. Not one is anorexic, none uses prozac, nor is in any way depressed, none are alcoholic, none are habitually angry, none lives in a world of perpetual p.c. rage. There are huge advantages to first world societies but I think there is a lot more that is wrong than some people realise. My decision to enter into a submissive relationship was made easier by 1st world women, most of whom seem perpetually angry, personally hard and out of sorts. It was especially helped by my own realisation of how like the average English speaking feminist I was becoming. Please be aware that I am not suggesting that any particular person or any person on this thread is a hard woman or an alcoholic etc but those are traits I see in abundance among modern western and westernised women.

I will be respectful of you and the culture that you were raised in. I can appreciate that this is a facet of your culture and as such is perceived as "natural" and "normal".
Please understand that in my culture men and women are considered equals and that the battering of women by men is considered a crime.
It is hard for me to wrap my head around a husband somehow feeling he has the right to hit his wife to tears. If my husband dared subdue me, hit me or in any way dominate me well lets just say it wouldn't be pretty and I am pretty sure I would be spending some time in prison. I don't put up with garbage from men. That you can be sure of.
You say that none of your friends are angry, none are depressed and none are alcoholic. Anger is a healthy, normal response to life and its challenges, it can be productive. If your friends are never angry, I would say they are exceedingly unhealthy and likely filled with rage seething beneath the surface. You say none are depressed or alcoholic, this I find very difficult to believe as living like a slave to a tyrant bully would naturally drive most humans to depression and the bottle.
It is okay to be a hard woman who speaks her mind and stands up to bullies.
Absolute power corrupts absolutely.
It is okay to be a "hard" woman it softens the men, makes them gentle, loving and kind, worthy of the love of a woman.

Several points. I did not say that my friends were never angry, the only point I was making was that unlike the average English speaking feminist they did not experience anger as permanent psychological state. Your last paragraph is consistent with several things. 1 You are a typical American who knows nothing, either about the outside World nor about how the wider World sees you. 2 A bit of real contact with people from other cultures might open your eyes to the way that fifty years or so of feminism in English-speaking countries have produced a peculiarly depressed and disturbed tenor of society among ordinary people.3 You say none are depressed or alcoholic, this I find very difficult to believe as living like a slave to a tyrant bully would naturally drive most humans to depression and the bottle.
4 It is a miserable thing to be a hard woman. You can do the research on uptake of anti-depressants in America among women. Only hard women delude themselves that their is nothing wrong with all of this.
3 'It is okay to be a hard woman who speaks her mind and stands up to bullies' This circularity indicates that you lack the slightest idea about what you are talking about. You simply have no idea of the impact of the sea of smiling faces that greets people in third world cities after a period of exposure to the loneliness and depression of LA or London.
I can tell easily what a nice woman you are but you cannot throw politically correct censoriousness at a patriarchy-believer like me from a standpoint of no knowledge nor wider insight.

I can respect the fact that your culture has shaped you and that my culture has shaped me.
You say that I lack knowledge and wider insight and you are correct as I have been raised in a culture very different from yours, I see your culture through my cultural lens. The same can be said for you.
I offer you this to think about.... freedom is precious and it is every humans right.
Be well.

What a kind, wise and big-hearted woman you must be to finish on that note. I will read your other posts with interest.

It is ever so painful but it is essential for the full bonding of man and woman

Branding is a form of scarification in which a hot metal brand, in a particular shape is placed upon the skin to make a permanent mark.

It means that I have had my husband's initials burnt into my shoulder with a hot iron. Some girls have done to their bottoms. Quite popular too, is to brand the pubic mound with a heart. You can watch girls being branded as dares on Youtube.

OMG that sounds so painful do you have to have that? The bottom woudl be better than the shoulder I think but isn't it dangerous?

I have never heard of any problems. It is much less painful than being caned or belted.

I can't believe it's less painful as it sounds like an injury that's there forever afterwards. Wow

I hope most husbands dont' do that

That is the idea that I am marked forever. Getting it done was amazing fun.

As long as it is done correctly, it is fine. However, many people are uneducated and try to do it with things not designed for branding. (Like gas powered soldering irons) It is more common that you think but not that widely done. Tattoos are less painful and efficient but some harken back to the traditional brand. You have to have the brand at a high enough temperature or it just disfigures the person.

Has to reach white hot