What Are You Waiting For? Make A Difference Today!

Have you ever taken issue with something, that at your core, you knew, was unfair or just plain wrong?


Maybe it was a policy issue such as healthcare reform or a human rights issue like poverty.


Whatever it was, it moved you to consider a solution & somehow you knew that if people could just see it, from your perspective, simply put, things would change.


Every day, most of us encounter issues that we find troubling.


It is hard to ignore what we see on the news and in the papers, wars, violence, poverty, broken and flawed education and healthcare systems.


I can’t think of a single person that I have ever known who hasn’t taken issue with something.


So what might keep us from doing something about it?


I suspect that there is no single answer.


Maybe it’s a lack of time, or perhaps we simply do not believe that a single ordinary individual can really make a difference.


Or maybe we just don’t believe that we have it takes.


Whatever the reason, I am here today to call on you to begin to view making a difference not just as another item on your to do list to be postponed or opted out of but as an opportunity to make a real and positive difference in your life and the lives of others.


Many of us may feel that changing the world or even our own circumstances would mean making a full time commitment.


And in a world where there never seems to be enough hours in the day, the idea of spare time is hard to imagine.


But the truth is that we do not have to quit our day jobs or commit our every waking hour to a cause to make a difference.


Volunteering can be as varied as the people who donate their time and skills.


For example, CharityGuide.org features volunteer opportunities that require as little as a fifteen minute commitment.


And VolunteerMatch.org can even allow a person the flexibility of e-volunteering from home by matching you with a cause in need of a cyber-service volunteer.


But what if a lack of time, is not the issue? What if instead we think it is a waste of time?


What could one ordinary person possibly do to make a lasting difference?


History offers us many examples of ordinary people making an extraordinary difference.


From Dr. Martin Luther King to Ghandi. From Mother Teresa to Rosa Parks. All ordinary individuals who have literally changed history in extraordinary ways. Can you imagine what would life be like today without their contributions?


Or a more recent example, John Walsh, an ordinary man, born and raised in Auburn, N.Y. and educated at the University of Buffalo.


A businessman, who worked building hotels and spent his spare time with his family. Pretty Ordinary, right? But then in 1981, his six year old son was abducted and murdered. And everything in his life changed. In spite of and because of his personal tragedy, he made a decision to make a difference. With the help of others who shared his passion, he created the network television, Americas Most Wanted. And today because of this one ordinary man, thousands of criminals have been apprehended and nearly a hundred missing children have been returned home. Extraordinary.


An then there are those of us who have known all our lives that we wanted to make a difference, but we do nothing because we don’t think we are qualified to.


We sabotage ourselves with I’m not smart enough, or I’m not articulate enough or why would anyone listen to me? Sound familiar?


Believe me when I say, to make a difference, you don't have to be louder than everyone. You don't have to be a trained speaker. You don't have to be elected. You don’t have to be a born leader. You just have to care.


Over the course of the last year, I have been honored to be asked to speak on more than one occasion about the importance of funding proven addiction prevention and treatment programs. I am not a doctor nor do I hold a degree in Addiction Studies. But it didn’t matter. Not a single person, legislator nor citizen, asked me what my qualifications were? Why? What made me qualified? Because I watched my sister battle addiction and ultimately die from the disease, I am able to offer a unique perspective on this issue. And because I spoke with conviction, passion & purpose, no one questioned my qualifications.


I told you this story to make this point.


To make a difference, you just have to believe that you can. In advocacy, commitment, passion, and patience are far more valuable virtues than perfection.


To put it simply, Teddy Roosevelt said "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are."


If you have 15 minutes to spare to support or work on behalf of a cause you believe in,


then you have time to make a difference.


If you have the capacity to recognize the distinction between what is and what should be then you are qualified to make a difference.


If you have the desire and the courage to act to change it, probabilities are high that you are destined to make a difference.


So what are you waiting for?


My message for you today is that the change needs us as much as we need it.


The world needs our skills, it needs our wisdom, it needs our courage, it needs our perspective, our enthusiasm and our faith.


Anne Frank said “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”


So in honor of that spirit of hope, I call on you today to join me and the other change makers who have come before us, to stand with me, as individuals to prove that with passion, faith, & courage it is indeed possible for one ordinary person to make an extraordinary difference.ce today 

Hope4Her Hope4Her
1 Response May 5, 2010

Dear Sir/Madam
The process of perception began in our minds. All our thoughts are aiming to distinguish good and evil. The silence that we keep has to be broken. We have to get rid of the lie from our world, to learn on mistakes made in the past. With our beliefs manifesting in daily life we can break the silence.
“We all can live better life.”
Fairness, justice and freedom are more than just words, they are perspectives. If you see the crimes of this government, if you feel as I feel, and if you would seek as I seek. Please support my protest against human rights violations:

“We have a right to access top secret acts, there is not different between us. We are all part of the nation.”
We all have a right to be treated equally. Since when 1 has different values “Why 1 GBP equals 1.2373 EURO” / 1 GBP equals 5 Zloty”
“What man has created belongs to the man. We have a right to use the same technology.”
“Banking system was created to ensure safety of people and their transactions. It was not created to divide society into rich and poor.”

On 21.09.2012 I decided to send a complaint of above to European Court of Human Right. I’m still waiting for their respond. Deep in my heart, I know that I'm right. We have to live with truth. To live in a harmony. To reach infinity.

Country is formed by the Nation
Nation is formed by Families
Families are formed by Me and You