I have been married for 4 months and have known/dated my husband for almost 7 years. I made it very clear early on in our relationship that I wanted children as soon as we got married. Now that we are married he is giving me the excuse that he wants to work on himself before having children with me. He's had almost 7 years to work on himself if that's what he needed to do first. It's not like he walked into this marriage and then I surprised him by saying I wanted kids. He has known my intentions all along. I'm so sad because I love him very much and I have no other choice but to wait for him again. I wanted to get married in 2012 and I put it off until 2014 for him. I'm so tired of fighting over this subject. Every time I discuss it with him he makes me feel like a selfish *****. I don't think I'm selfish at all.
tndedeus tndedeus
26-30, F
Sep 1, 2014