I Hate It When People Tell Me This.

Bad experiences, poor chioces, lousy role models, insensitive interactions from people who are supposed to love you, not enough positive reinforcement- These are all reasons why people think they are a disappointment to others.

Let me make this clear

"IT IS NOT ALL YOUR FAULT THAT YOU FEEL LIKE THIS!"

And I am sorry thst you feel this way.

And I am sorry that someone forgot to help you when you needed help.

You must first learn to please yourself and then worry about others.

I am concerned.

Please keep me informed.

retiredfather retiredfather
61-65, M
2 Responses Feb 26, 2009

I agree, with those experience, feeling like a disappointment would only make sense. I have dealt with the above and found it's important for me to love myself 1st. But to do that, I had to find myself by peeling away the B.S. to learn who I really am.

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