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I Believe In An Emotional Connection

The Emotional Connection..Is Only Half Of What Is Needed.

By: neuilly
Written on March 5th, 2012
By: neuilly
Age: 61-65 , Female
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  • LoveToads

    neuilly, you have described love, sex, emotional connection, lust.....so beautifullly. Wish more people were open about their feelings. I know probably I will be beaten up by male EP'ers but I still find it puzzling that MOST(not ALL) men have difficulty in expressing their love to their loved ones. We know they love us but it would be nice if they would express it. And yes, what's wrong with saying, "I lust for you too"? or "I have fantasies about you". Again women express their fantasies but men don't. Ha ha, I can see the dirty looks I am getting from the men.

    Mar 26, 2012
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    • neuilly

      I think both genders can connect emotionally and so both have the same potential..it is just that perhaps women are more comfortable doing that.....i am not sure..but some men are very good at expressing their feelings and sharing what is in their heart.and so maybe ..the trick is to make the partner feel comfortable and secure in the relationship....

      Mar 26, 2012
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    • LoveToads

      Very well said indeed! May be it's just me then. I have been accused of intimidating people. I don't know from where people get such wrong impressions about me! Never mind, after sometime they do realize how wrong they are. So kind of you to share your thoughts.

      Mar 26, 2012
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  • xezeep

    You mean the whole thing just drop on your lap? Not learnt / acquired? Any social books to expedite the process?

    Mar 7, 2012
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    • neuilly

      for the emotional connection......you just need the right person to come along....even toddlers can connect at an emotional level..it is just matching personalities.

      Mar 7, 2012
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    • xezeep

      i see. i just can't go beyond dogs and toddlers.

      Mar 7, 2012
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  • neuilly

    i agree with your observation concerning lust..i think people over react to the word.. and in a realtionnship...lust/desire is appropriate and needed.

    Mar 7, 2012
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