That initial emotional connection to a mother and father that we can really feel loves us is so essential to normal healthy development that without it we will be trying to fix our scars the rest of our life. If those original bonds are marginal and weak the fear and insecurity caused shuts us down emotionally and we cling to bare bones rationalized plans to get through life by just surviving instead of functioning at a high enough interpersonal level to form satisfying bonds. Even the soul wounded by not feeling that initial love can learn to carefully trust and form loving bonds but it is a long hard road.
4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild
56-60, M
Aug 25, 2014