Feels Better If We Just Go Dutch

just on dates.. I am not yet married, have a career or a relationship..  I feel guilty If someone pays for my food and ride.. I hope that someone will understand.. gifts on special occasions is ok, I'll get you one back.. but usually I don't celebrate my birthday anyway..

amejad amejad
22-25, F
3 Responses Jan 29, 2009

You sound like a very considerate and caring person. Please let your dates treat you from time to time. I dated someone like you. At first it made me think that they didn't like my gifts until they explained their feelings. <br />
You'd make a great catch.

My partner and I have been together for three blissful years and we both still demand to pay our share - I even leave him little iou's if I borrow money out of his little change pot. He puts them in the bin but I put the money back anyway - we laugh lots about our independant streaks.

Me too - I do not want anyone paying for me