Karma That Years Later Is Biting My ExI fell madly in love in 1997. We got married and was living apart while he completed his naval school. I had moved to,Tx with his family. Things were very stressful and I miscarried a baby I didn't know at the time I was pregnant with. I told my husband and he didn't seem to care at all. I ended up in the hospital down there and the navy had to fly him to the hospital. The hospital told my husband I have been under too much stress and am depressed. My husband asked the nurse if she could guarantee him that my depression would never come back. She said no that she couldn't.He said he couldn't jeopardize his military career. At that point, he took his wedding ring off, told me wanted a divorce and I never saw him again. I was literally abandoned and the pain of losing him I never felt such pain in my life. I cried almost non-stop for several weeks and then after a couple of months, about once a week for a good year. I couldn't believe he abandoned me, his family had and I literally had noway home. Except a patient t hat was getting released the same day as me, offered to take me with her.
My husband wouldn't even get me a bus ticket home and my father ended up getting me one. I tried to get him to work it out,due to loving him and he refused. After 6 months, I filed for divorce. I told him I'd always love him and we were divorced a year later. Over the duration of 10 years when I'd think about it and not knowing how he could treat the one that loved him the most how he did, I'd cry. I met my current husband 3 years ago and when I told him the story,I broke down crying and told him it was the worse pain I had to go through. The very next day, I get an email. His wife wanted to chat with me. Her words to me were, he has been going through a lot of karma. She said, he married after me and his wife took everything of theirs, ran up credit on him,etc. So his 3rd wife being the current, told me that he got into trouble with the military due to her drugs,going to prison for 2 years and he had gotten busted back a rank. He contacted me a few days later to say he was sorry for how he treated me and that he and his wife split up. I told him he hurt me bad and he had been the love of my life.
Well he said he and his wife weren't getting along and she left him and told me to come down there. I said, sure.lol. Two days later, they both respond to say it was a joke to see if I'd do it. I guess he thought he could hurt me badly. However, after talking to his wife online for a few days and her telling me what a bad husband and father he is, I knew I didn't miss out on anything. For me it was good karma to get closure by realizing he would've never been the husband I thought he'd be had he stayed with me. A year has since passed since they contacted me and I read on his face book that he is getting kicked out of the military on October 3rd, my birthday of all times. He ended up losing his career of 13 years, but am glad he can't say it was because of me. Perhaps him putting his career before me, judging me and never giving us a chance as a married couple, have been his karma. It took 10 years to see him get it, but it does definitely come around.
the1codex 31-35 6 Responses 3 Jun 22, 2010