Get You A Lover!

Many people have a lover; others would like to have one. Many do not have one or they had one and lost it.
And then they are those who feel sad, suffer insomnia, lack of will, pessimism, several pains.

They complain that their life has no meaning and no expectation, they only work for nothing else that to subsist and they do not know in what to occupy their free time.

They feel they have loose hope. They visited witches, taroists, psychologists, and doctors and received a diagnosis: “Depression”.

They do not need an antidepressant, what they really need is: A lover!

I can imagine the expression of your eyes when you read this verdict
Some would say that it is a little scientific suggestion, others will be scandalized, and others just would stop reading and will never return back again to read.

For those that decide to remain I give the following definition for them:

A LOVER:  Is what make us feel passion for, which occupies our thought before going to bed and is also what at times, does not let to us sleep. A LOVER is what makes us not concentrate, being absent in the surroundings as opposed to us. What gives the knowledge that life has motivation and sense.

Sometimes we find OUR LOVER in our partner, in other cases in someone who is not our partner.  Some may find it in the investigation, Literature, Music, EP, the politics … Practicing a Sport, at Work when it is a vocation, in the necessity to extend the spirituality, in a friendship, in a nice dinner table, in the  studies, or  pleasing a hobby…

A LOVER is “somebody” or “something” that take us to become “fianceè with life” and take us far away from the sad destiny of just lasting.

And, what is to last?

To last is to be scared to live. It is to dedicate yourself to spy as the others live, is to take your pressure, to ramble by medical doctor's offices, to take multicolor remedies, to move away of the allowances, to observe with deception each new wrinkle that the mirror gives back to us, to take us  worrying about  the cold or the heat, the humidity, the sun and rain.
To last is to delay the possibility of enjoying today, using the uncertain and fragile reasoning of which we perhaps pruned to do it tomorrow.

I would like to suggest: Please, you do not insist on lasting GET YOURSELF A LOVER
The tragic thing is not dying, death has good memory and it never forgets anybody.
The tragic thing is not to encourage ourselves to LIVE meanwhile and without doubting, GET YOU A LOVER.

Good Luck!
I hope that you find the best one of the Lovers.

MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia
46-50, F
9 Responses Jul 18, 2010

The Force of Love
"Love is an element which though physically unseen
is as real as air or water. It is an acting. living.
movingforce ... it moves in waves and currents
like those of the ocean. "
The kind of love that the greatest thinkers and saviors
of the world talked about is very different from what most
people understand love to be. It is much more than loving
your family, friends, and favorite things, because love is not
just a feeling: love is a positive force. Love is not weak, feeble,
or soft. Love is the positive force of life! Love is the cause
of everything positive and good. There are not a hundred
different positive forces in life; there is only One*
Nature's great powers, like gravity and electromagnetism,
are invisible to our senses, but their power is indisputable.
Likewise, the force of love is invisible to us, but its power
is in
be seen
any of nature's
in the
evidence - love, there is no life.
Take a moment to think about it: What would the world
be without love? First of all, you wouldn't even exist; without
love you couldn't have been born. None of your family and
friends would have been born either. In fact, there wouldn't
be a single human being on the planet. If the force of love
ceased today, the entire human race would decrease and
eventually die out.
Every single invention, discovery, and human creation
came from the love in a human heart. If it were not for the
love of the Wright Brothers, we could not fly in an airplane.
If it were not for the love of scientists, inventors, and
discoverers, we would not have electricity, heating, or light;
nor would we be able to drive a car or use a phone, appliance,
or any of the technology that makes life easier and more
comfortable. Without the love of architects and builders,
there would be no homes, buildings, or cities. Without love,
there would be no medicines, doctors, or emergency facilities.
No teachers, schools, or education. There would be no books,
no paintings, and no music, because all of these things are
created from the positive force of love. Take a look around you
right now. Whatever you see that is a human creation would
not be there without love.
Take away love and our earth is a tomb. " s )
Love Is the Force That Moves You
Everything you want to be, do, or have comes from love.
Without love, you wouldn't move. There would be no positive
force to propel you to get up in the morning, to work, play,
dance, talk, learn, listen to music, or do anything at alL You'd
be like a stone statue. It is the positive force of love that
inspires you to move and gives you the desire to be, do, or
have anything. The positive force of love can create anything
good, increase the good things, and change anything negative
in your life. You have the power over your health, your wealth,
your career, your relationships, and every area of your life.
And that power - love - is inside you!
But if you have the power over your life, and that power
is inside you, why isn't your life amazing? Why isn't every area
of your Ijfe magnificent? Why don't you have everythjng you
want? Why haven't you been able to do everything you want
to do? Why aren't you filled with joy every day?
The answer is: because you have a choice. You have a
choice whether to love and harness the positive force - or
not. And whether you realize it or not, every day of your life

he Attractive Force of Love
So what is the force of attraction? The force of attraction

is the force of love! Attraction is love. When you feel an
attraction to your favorite food, you're feeling love for that
food; without attraction, you wouldn't feel anything. All food
would be the same to you. You wouldn't know what you love
or what you don't love, because you wouldn't be attracted
to anything. You wouldn't be attracted to another person,
a particular city, house, car, sport, job, music, clothes, or
anything, because it's through the force of attraction that
you feel love!
"The law of attraction or the law of love . .. they are
one and the same. "
The law of attraction is the law of love, and it is the allpowerful law that keeps everything in harmony, from countless
galaxies to atoms. It is operating in everything and through
everything in the universe. And it is the law that is operating
in your life. Don't you think its above time ?

This is so good. So good.

Nice, I agree. Media and fantasy flood my mind and bring out the best "true dreamer" in me.

hmmm... youre probably right.Ill take this into consideration.

Great story. Unigue perspective on life. :)

Our lover is a state of mind, a place where we feel safe enough to be totally vulnerable. We remove our protective coverings and get lost in the sense of belonging. Our senses are heightened, our experiences intensified. We reveal our true self and are accepted and appreciated for that reality. Our lover's greatest joy is sharing in our joy, and vice versa. Our emotions flow, yet not straight, but in waves or pulsations. We know not what lies around the next curve, but trust it to be something of value. We savor the exploration and discovery on our path, sometimes soothing, sometimes energizing, when, with no advanced warning, the energy crescendos, lifting us high in the air, only to be caught in a nice warm cloud that nurtures us as we slowly descend back down to our path and our continued adventure. We know that this adventure has no beginning and has no end. We lose ourselves in the process, and, by doing so, we emerge as fuller, deeper and more self-confident individuals.

Well this lover I am talking about does nota have to be a "person" can be something, some just need a person to love to feel complete. My lover this days is my job, which was given as a gift, and I am grateful to have it, I enjoy it so much and feel passionate about it. makes me creative, active, useful, committed, you name it.<br />
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Does not means that I don't cherish finding the right person, I am, I am not looking for someone who is perfect....just the perfect for me! and I know, he will show up sooner or later...then I might change my ACTUAL LOVER for him, don't know!<br />
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Tks for posting a commment...

Well you are so right. I have tried all of this and have finally realized that there is only but one thing I need in my life to make it complete. Im not sad anymore I am out looking and searching and have my heart open for her whereever she is. I know I will find her and WOW it will be great. Its nice to see some one else is aware of this. I used to think it was me being needy. But its just my soul needing to be filled with love from a lover.

Thank you dear, this is what I need. I can't help but in tears reading it as I am in the mid of cross road, to stay or move on in my life. :(