A Favor For Him Or Me??
At a benefit for a lost love
one I met this man, that I was extremely attracted too in everyway possible. It turns out he also was attracted to me and ask somebody to introduce him to me. After playing hard to get and going out on a few dates I could tell this was going to be a relationship like no other I had yet experienced. Within a few months he told me he loved me and our relationship took off, right into living together, even talks about marriage. To shorten this up… he got arrested was sentenced 3-10 years almost 8 months ago and up until last Friday I have been there for him 100% with money on his books, lawyer fees, every visit and even spending time with his children and other family members. Last Friday I got a "Dear Jonh" letter from him telling me he was letting me go, that this is unfair to me and I should move on with me life. He said I deserve to be happy and he is holding me back from that and one day he hopes I see this as him doing me a huge favor. I have been going through the emotions, but really believe he loves me and he thinks this is the best for me….but it is my choice to wait because I know love like this doesn’t happen twice. I have sent him letters and tried to go for a visit just to be refused by him....how do you let go of somebody that you know loves you and you love them