I was looking through my Facebook archived messages and came across a girl I tried talking to but had to much "baggage" This was months after I stopped talking to her. I figured everyone deserves a second chance, So I emailed her and we slowly worked things out or so I thought. She had recently told me her mom was in the hospital as well as her grandpa. Never said why. I asked her why but she avoided the subject so I offered "If you ever need me, I will be here for you" I even offered on the date of 7-13-12 that I would take her out to get her mind off of things, but she insisted on talking about her problems. I said I was sorry again that her loved ones were in the hospital and she proceeds to chew me out because " I could have supported her more" I have a full time job and full time school not to mention I am working on getting out of credit card debt. I told her " I understand you are going through hard times but don't think you are the only one and don't play the "poor me" card" I told her that this would never work if she insisted on complaining about **** but never letting others help. So I told her I was moving on. Was this the right thing to do? I had feelings for her. This always happens to me...they either find another guy...or have to much baggage...or aren't ready.