Some Guys Are Gross

i agree with vendetta and with alaterale. in addition, guys in your age have a lot more testosterone than men in their 40's for example. It is more intense for them. Then comes peer pressure, they have to show their buddies they are sexually active. This combination makes them desperate and run over other people's feelings. But it is still no excuse to hurt anybody.

I agree, except about the "some" part (I find there are too many out there unfortunately...). In general the only guys that I have found are decent are my fellow geek friends (the ostracized tend to be more sensitive and respectful I think), and my transmen friends. Like vendetta said, hormones drive a bit of it. Transguys that I know have told me that once on T they start being a lot more sexually active in thinking, aggressive, etc. Also from reading in biology, T is the main driver I remember in sex drive, even for women (as we have both hormones in our bodies).



The problem is, a lot of guys just take it to another level, going beyond decency. Whether its sex drive, our society's emphasis on men being in more power, or just guys that are **** and have no respect for others, it still sucks. Sorry if someone has hurt you recently.

your comments are great thanks!

It's only partially their fault. Women run on estrogen, which promotes things like empathy and social needs. Men run on testosterone, which promotes things like aggression and the need to spread seed. If women ran on testosterone, their sexual drive would be much closer to the drive of a male.

I agree with Godsmack!

It's because most of them think with the brain in their genetalia, not the one that matters. Sad but true.