I Believe

I truly believe in monogamy. Yet almost all the relationships...I am thinking except one...I have been in, the other person always cheated. My first husband did, the man who fathered two of my children did. Then I didn't date for almost 8 years. Started dating someone and guess what yep they cheated too. Sometimes I just wonder if it is me. Although I am still hopeful that I will find that person that believes like I do. Does that make me a romantic?

feebee feebee
56-60, F
5 Responses Mar 11, 2009

Don't give up hope yet..just be clearer and clearer about what you want, and don't settle for anything less. <br />
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And don't forget to watch out for those little (upsetting) signs in the beginning of any new relationship! Unless you feel on top of the world with somebody, don't fall for him. Those signs have always bitten me later when I decided to continue the relationship `anyway' because it was better than being alone. Big mistake. Don't settle for anything less than the best girl..<br />
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Good luck!

Keep looking, it is out there

No! it's not you, your heart is so big and pure, that they just took advantage of it. You will someday soon find that Mr. He loves me and only me.

Wow! You are much stronger than I could ever be! I am sorry that you had such bad luck with the others! Keep believing and you will find someone who feels the same as you when you least expect it!

You've had some bad luck!<br />
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I think it's great that you still believe. You'll find him!