Standing Up For Monogamy
First of all, let me confess that, as a man, I feel my back against the wall just a little bit as I prepare to contribute this experience.
I've watched the shows that explain this primitive instinct men supposedly have to want to copulate with as many women as possible, to ensure the survival of the species. I haven't met any guys who explained it to me like that, however. It's more along the lines of "I want as many girls as possible for the variety, fun, because women are so hot, how can you settle for just one, and because sex is so much fun, so why not spread it around?" We're not just talking about one or two guys, either. Nearly all of them, even if they don't express it explicitly, jump on this cruise.
S I G H
I should say, as well, that I'm not some squeaky-clean do-gooder with a conscience of gold, or a Conservative religious fanatic (I know I'll hear back about that one). Monogamy is my personal choice.
Because, first of all, no one has demonstrated that the alternative is better. So there.
Second of all, when I get along with a woman so well, and everything clicks, there is no motivation -- AT ALL -- to go looking for another, because there's nothing missing! I get all I need out of one woman. Lets face it, guys, when a woman sticks her talons into you, it's not because she wants to give you any excuses to go looking. If she likes you, she will twist herself like a pretzel, if need be, to make you happy. I'd do the same for her, too.
There's an ex
Anyway, I've gone on for too long, sounding like I need to defend my position rather than just stating it. Hooray for monogamy!