How I See It
I am not weak. My husband listens to my point of view and takes me seriously. I am not a door matt. But in my view he is in charge. If he disagrees with me, I restate what I think or believe. But he makes the final decisions. He is in no way abusive or demeaning to me. Actually this is more me than him. He does not like the leadership role a lot of the time. I feel safer with him making the decissions, he does lots of research and as I said ALWAYS considers my viewpoint, and what is best for me. In short he loves me more than himself.