He Wouldn't Want Me to
If you enjoy obeyance, go for it, I wouldn't, but it's a matter of personal choice. But for my husband it wouldn't be a good thing.
My husband is not a control freak and has no desire to have an obediant robot for a wife. We left the "obey" line out of our marriage vows before it was fashionable to do so, by mutual agreement. We do everything by mutual agreement. It's not hard. In hindsight the entire promise was unnecessary as we are still deeply in love nearly 30 years later and we realise that promising to love someone is one of most absurd things a person is ever asked to do.